When you’re planning your wedding reception playlist, you might assume you have to select every single song from start to finish — but that’s not the case! A great DJ helps you build the soundtrack for your day, filling in the gaps with crowd-tested favorites, flow, and energy.

One of the biggest questions couples consider is whether or not to take song requests. Here some pros and cons for taking guest requests and how to handle them.

The Pros and Cons of Taking Guest Requests

Letting guests have a say in the music can be a wonderful way to make your celebration feel personal and inclusive. When you DJ spins a song your guests love, it naturally draws people to the dance floor. You’ll get a mix of your friends’ and family’s favorites. And shared songs often become the night’s big moments that everyone talks about later.

Of course, giving guests free rein can sometimes have potential downsides. A guest might request something that doesn’t fit your occasion’s vibe. And too many slow songs can kill dance floor momentum. Then there’s always managing guests who insist hearing their favorites.

That’s where a skilled, professional DJ makes all the difference.

Handling Guest Requests Diplomatically

At HD Entertainment, our team of all-female DJs knows that reading the room is an art form. When we take requests, we don’t just play them — we evaluate them. Our DJs use experience and instinct to decide whether a song will boost the energy or disrupt the flow.

We also know how to handle guests graciously. Whether it’s politely saying “I’ll see what I can do” or finding a creative remix that works better for the moment, we keep everyone feeling heard without compromising your vision.

Smart Ways to Take Guest Requests

If you’d like to invite guest requests without losing control, here are a few ideas:

  • Add a song request line to your RSVP. This lets you see what your guests want before the big day and share those ideas with your DJ.

  • Create a “must play” and “do not play” list. You’ll have peace of mind knowing your DJ has clear guidelines.

  • Use a wedding website or planning app. Guests can suggest songs digitally, and your DJ can curate from there.

Your Choice, Our Expertise

Allowing song requests can make your wedding reception feel interactive and fun — as long as your DJ has the experience to manage them. Planning a wedding in Gettysburg or Central PA? Your DJ Entertainment DJ takes the time to understand your style, create a balanced playlist, and keep your night running smoothly. We love incorporating guest energy — when it serves the celebration you’ve imagined.

Get in touch with us and learn more about how we plan, communicate, and personalize every playlist. And remember, it’s your choice whether your wedding DJ takes guest requests.